"A nonpolar covalent bond forms when electrons are shared equally between atoms. A polar covalent bond forms when electrons are not shared equally…the more electronegative atom 'gets' more electrons than he gives away by sharing. A coordinate covalent bond is imagined to form when one atom donates the entire pair of electrons which are shared with the other atom.
A restaurant analogy for these situations could be as follows:
- A nonpolar covalent bond is formed if you give your friend half of your cheeseburger in exchange for half of his chicken burger.
- A polar covalent bond would be like your friend taking all of your cheeseburger and in exchange giving you just a small bite of his chicken burger.
- A coordinate covalent bond forms if you notice a homeless person outside, bring them into the restaurant, and give them your whole dinner to eat."
Source: Murray Hart, retired science teacher, previously posted at scienceanalogies.com
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